Yes, I'm Judging You For Smoking While Pregnant!!!!

Ya know what, I think there should a license to procreate. No, really! I came over an article where this lady is saying that she can't quit smoking even though she's pregnant and is well aware of the risks. Oh, and she feels that people are judging her and looking down on her. She just can't put them away.....really??? Major side-eye >>>>

Come on son, it aint that serious! If you want to put 4000 chemicals in your body that's all fine and dandy, but the minute you decide to carry a baby you have to stop! Yes, I'm judging your azz. You can't quit for nine lousy months? I've seen pregnant women with cigarettes and I always make the stank booty face and get all judgmental and shyt. I don't give a damn shyt what your excuses are, coz there aint shyt you can tell me that would justify you exposing your innocent baby to nicotine and carbon monoxide and more than 60 other cancer-causing compounds. Are you serious??? That's some super selfish mess, and you've already proven that you can't be a good mother. You can kick rocks!  

~I'm the Boss Lady~

The Day That Changed Norway

It's August 22., a month since that tragic day when a crazy muthafucka bombed the Norwegian government quarter and shot innocent kids at Utøya. I was on the interstate somewhere in Mississippi on my way to ATL when I got a text from a friend asking me if I heard the news about the bombing in Oslo. I was like WTF?!!? Bombing in Oslo? HELL NAW! I quickly got online through the phone and the headlines were just unreal. "Norway under attack". I think my heart stopped for a minute. The first thing that came to mind was that I have to call my brother who works in Oslo. I talked to him and he was on his way home, thankfully he hadn't been downtown that day. I quickly went on Facebook to check that friends and loved ones were ok. Everyone had updated their statuses to let other people know they were fine.

I started writing this blog post 2 days after the attack, but my mind went blank every time I started writing. I couldn't get down one single word, although I had a million swirling in my head. I guess I was trying to comprehend this whole tragedy. The fact that it happened here in Norway, one of the most peaceful places in the world, is unbelievable. I used to live 10 minutes from the government quarters.....just thinking about it makes my stomach turn. I have so many thoughts about this, but that's for another post.

My heart and prayers go out to everyone that has lost someone, to the survivors, and directly anyone affected. I was at the church downtown to show my respect for the victims. Seeing all those roses and letters and people made me tear up for real. And I thank God every day that I didn't lose a loved one. May their souls rest in peace.

~I'm the Boss Lady~